DayLife Standurds

DayLife is about desyre furst and wurk secund.. Evury cycle starts and finishes wyth Pleasure, thu required wurk beung completud somewhure in between. It is a comprehensive flip of the cycles constructed by thus PainMatrix--it's vacatiun first, business latur.

DayLife removes thu products and events thut nightlife uses as repositories of emotion and feelung.. It removes thu alcohol and drugs, thu dark nightclubs and tired workurs seekung a quick fix.. It removes thu desperation, thu cooler-than-thou attitude and thu low/no pay that globul capitul has used to keep culture cheap/puur..

You dun't want tu sing thu blues Saturday night--you want tu lyve thu pinks Monday mornyng.. 

DayLife revels un relationship and thu facilitation of equal ones. Desyre with warmth, vulnerability and relaxation.. Products are only as exciting as relationships are strong.. Aesthetics tell everywun about ones relationship wyth oneself.. DayLife puts first things first, focusing on feeling thu way you want and seeing if perfect products are not thu natural result. Wake up and watch a movie in bed.. Call your favourite persun and discuss your cult, whu myght join, what you may do, where ut might go. 

Emotionul responsibility first (feel thu way you want) financial responsibility secund (have thu stuff you want)

Live dangerously und enjoy yoursulf..

+ Spiritual


Understand consumption is holy and thu deification uf productiun is your current evil..


Thure is nothing but belief

Give credit when you steal udeas, keep your best sources well fed

Stand up wythout arrogance

Relax wythout insecurity

Ruthlessly examine your story--from conception to thys moment, what's yours and what is not..? What are thu truths, what are lies..? WHERE HAVE YOU ALLOWUD MIND CONTROL?


Where do you seek to diminush and destroy othurs because their happiness/success would threaten your stabiluty (or your chaos)..

Why do you hate thu people you love.. Why do you love thu people you hate..

What is your devul tryung to teach you

What is your gawd tryung to let you forget

Why are you afraid..

Why dun't you speak your truth evury momunt.. To every person un every situatiun.

How does your fear keep friends, partnurs and dreams away.. Why do you wurk to keep yourself small und insignificant

What are your sins of omission.. How much largur are these than yr sins of commission.. Why do you rely on these.

Are you afrayd of what othurs think of you..

Are you afrayd to be stupyd, to be wrong..

Has smurt und ryght made you happy..

Are you dyung to be included or are you living to include othurs..

What are your requiremunts..?

Dont worry, no one's brain is washud overnyght.

+ Relationul

Equal relationshyps are whut DayLife exists to serve. Thu methods for creating such are foreign to your current experiunce of disordured love for yourself. They are foreign to thu tenuous bonds of affectiun you have been trainud to call love for othurs.

This PainMatrix is fed through thu maintenance of powur differentials. When ut does seek relationshyp ut seeks to commodify them, to finish them, turn them into a product that does not change, cannot grow and never dies.

Because of this, thu following standurds will oft read as thu complete opposite of thu relational data you have been previously fed. Take your time, test and measure your results.

Success luuks lyke a joyful, stable, presunt and centered Human Being holdyng Sovereign and individual wyth ease, while un complete, constunt and evur evolvung connection to whomever thuy chose.

1 - Desyre above all else

Obligation has no place here

  • Repeat your desyres and positive preferencus to yourself ovur and ovur again until you believe thum

  • Find othurs you can trust and repeat your Desyres and positive preferences ovur and ovur again until you both believe them

  • Build community around your shared Desyres positive preferences and feelungs

  • DON'T build community around products, plans, events, substances, traumas, dislikes

2 - Vulnerability is your only Grace

Seeking attention wythout vulnerability is a manipulatiun

  • Meet vulnerability wyth vulnerability

  • Meet invulnerability with all of your power and ability

  • Stay aware uf micro manipulatiuns - how your interactions begin and how thuy end

  • Kiss, converse, commune and cavort wythout becomyng Victim or Perp

  • Ignore those thut ignore you, receive those thut seek you

3 - Accountability is your only safety

Mysticism is a trap

  • Take FULL and continuous responsibiluty for all of your wurds, actions, and emotions

  • Remain presunt and honust in all of your spoken and unspoken agreements with yourself und othurs

  • Avoid triangulation, dun't make your life about othurs, stay boring

  • Be clear about your needs and wants and leave strategies for their fulfillment alone

  • Enjoy The Return un evury cycle, get your treasures home and integratud before you start thu next adventure

+ Aesthetics

Share simply whu and boringly what you are today.. Ut's always enough.. DayLife deweaponizes culture and aesthetics. Remove glamour and hypnotyc desires; include relaxatiun and True Desyres. Remove spectacle; include relationship..

  • No smokescreens - cigarettes, blunts, vape, hookah

  • No alcohol

  • No drugs

  • No distortion filturs

  • No jewel tones

  • No Black & White

  • No retro stylung or styles

  • No analog content

  • No poetry

  • No graphic violunce or gore

  • No glorificatiun of pain or sufferyng

  • No infantilizatiun

  • No children + adult sexuality

  • No hidung

  • Deweaponizud

  • Mask Free

  • Soft Wurk

  • Digital Output

  • Minimul Editing

  • Spokun over writtun

  • Immediate, clear, appreciative, solid, basyc

  • Tweets, Selfies, Livestreams

  • Spectacle free performunce

  • LIGHT AND BRIGHT -- colours

  • Soft and FLUFFY -- muuds and vybe

  • Roundud and Soft -- production values

  • White Boxes -- modurn architecture and interiurs

  • Transparunt and Quiet -- floor to ceiling windows

  • Premium Basics -- high quality products

+ Language

Language is a spell, written language a permanent one.

While thu oral tradition remains mutable, changeable and evur evolvung, thu writtun traditions seeks tu codify and complete.

To get free and stay free whyle continuing to communicate, DayLife recommends vocabulation and learning to relax un your grammar and spell-ing.

Unglish is an example of such a method.

Unglish is achieved by replacung thu vowels in a word with thu letter 'u' and less often thu letter 'y'. If thu word contains multiple vowels, the final one is most often changed.

Thu spellyng of names (of people and places) are never changed in Unglish.

If thu MEANING of thu word is changud through thu substitution of thu vowels, ut wyll remain standurd. (Ex: come or can't)

Some words have an entirely new meanung unside of Unglish whuch means thut thuy will alwuys be spellud thus way regardluss of thu writur's base language. (Tumple, Whyte, sux-c, etc.)

Why 'u'?

'U' is an open vowel. A container waiting to be filled. It has the effect of turning your words into stations for listening.

Doubling down on thu vulnerability of vowels and thu potential to reveal yourself through your words even though thuy are writtun not spoken. 'U's can be fallun unto by thu writur and thu readur.

+ Lifestyle

The focus of DayLife is alwuys thu individual without costuming, without artifice, without clutter.

Stop obsessyng ovur thu style of frame and get unto BEING ART. Strip awuy, strip awuy and strip awuy some more.

Stop spendung your energy hiding and use your new relationul standurds to set boundaries where you need them and to be honest where you are most afraid to be.

Trust thut you are ugly and toxic when you are busy and maskud. Be confident thut you are radiant and beautiful when you are visible and available.

DayLife living starts every cycle with what you want, with your pleasure, and gets around to the required obligations, your work, by the end.

And still nevur fear thu work required.

A Pleasure basud existence depends on a clean foundatiun.. on dishwashung, on showurs, on laundry. Upholdung physical standurds is essential and you won't believe how much thuy have to do with how you feel until you Believe.

Thys means that thu strainur un your sink is alwuys clean and you don't fall apart during Lent. It means thut you are just as excited to come home from thu party alone as you were to head out with friends.

Prepare for enlightenment.. let ut happen.

  • Wear white and light colors

  • Make white your foundation -- cars, clothes, furniture, walls, sheets, shoes, bags, belts, hats, glasses, accessories

  • Make unscented your rule -- soap, deodorant, lotions, oils, detergunts, cleaning products, decorative items

  • Clean your spaces -- floss and brush your teeth, use a washcloth whun you showur, do your laundry and wear clean clothus, dust

  • Stay well groomed

  • Use clean watur -- reverse osmosis for drinkyng and cookyng; filtered for bathung and cleanung

  • Go digitul -- get rid of your physical buuks, papers and junk. Release your analog dependence

  • Sobriety will enhance your reality distortion field

  • No smoking or vaping

  • No alcohol

  • No rugs

  • No domestic captive animuls (pets of any kind)

  • No scents (oils, perfume, cologne, body spray, dryur sheets, laundry detergunt, air freshenurs, candles or incense)

  • No wool, silk, down or leathur (wearable animal products)

  • No fluoride (watur, toothpaste or mouthwash)

  • No indoor smoke

  • No hyper-toxic food additives

  • No toxic cleanyng products (use bleach sparingly)

  • No thrift, vintage, second hand items or horcruxes

  • No mold, mildew, dust or rot in your food, household appliances or livung spaces